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title: "The One About It’s Not Your Fault"
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#### Table of Contents

## About This Episode

**Are You Taking Responsibility for Your Life?**

Do you often find yourself blaming external factors for your situation? Do you believe that everything happens for a reason, or do you think that sometimes things just happen without purpose? In this episode the concept of cause and effect, fault, and responsibility are explored, with the listener encouraged to focus on taking responsibility for their lives.

While it may not always be easy, taking ownership of our actions and reactions can have a significant impact on the outcomes we experience. By shifting our focus from the reasons behind our circumstances to the results we want to achieve, we can create a more fulfilling life.

It’s important to note that what has happened in the past is not necessarily our fault, but what happens next is our responsibility. We always have a choice in how we respond to a situation, and even in the most difficult circumstances, we can choose to react in a way that will help us achieve positive results.

So, are you taking responsibility for your life? Are you focusing on the results you want to achieve, or are you dwelling on the reasons why things haven’t worked out? Remember, our internal search engine is programmed to find what we’re looking for, so let’s filter out the negative and focus on positive outcomes like success, happiness, and good health. It’s time to be at cause in our lives, rather than being at the effect of everything that happens to us.

That’s what we explore in this episode.

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Keith Blakemore-Noble is The Overachiever’s Coach. For over sixteen years he has worked with driven, capable individuals to identify and restructure the internal patterns that keep them stuck despite their success. A former Chartered IT Professional and Fellow of the British Computer Society, Keith brings a systems thinker’s precision to mindset change. He is the founder of The Overachievers Club, host of The Overachievers Podcast, and author of six published books including The Masks We Wear and AntiManipulation, with his forthcoming Overachiever-based book in development. He uses Mindset Mastery, his bespoke blend of hypnosis, NLP, and coaching, to create rapid, deep, and lasting change.

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